It is very important when we are talking about forgiveness, that we emphasize that it doesn’t mean that you return to an abusive relationship, or allow an abusive person back into your life. Forgiveness does not equal trust.

You give forgiveness to set yourself free. Trust must be earned by the person who injured you. Make them earn your trust before you allow them access to you and your life.

Even if you genuinely commit to forgiving those that hurt you, you may still struggle. Remember forgiveness is to help you be set free from the hurt and anger, and head of feelings of bitterness. It may take a while, but if you keep working at it, you’ll get there.